1. Do take your time. Just as you should spend time creating an ad for yourself, it's also important to do the same when replying. If you're pressed for time, send a link to your own ad (one you've spent energy on, of course!) as a reply.

2. Do personalize your reply. Having a template for replies is a terrific way to streamline the process; however, it's key that you personalize each response. If someone mentions a movie you love, tell them. If they're looking for a hiking partner, describe your favorite trail.

3. Do show your personality. If you have a sense of humor, use it! You need to stand out from the crowd. If you can elicit a giggle, bet you'll get a reply in return.

4. Do check your spelling! Good spelling makes a good impression.  Unfortunately, poor spelling makes people look stupid or uneducated, whether or not that's the case.

5. Do send a picture. Most likely, you responded to an ad with a picture. Just as personals with pictures generate more response than those without, replies with pictures do the same.

6. Don't write only a few lines. "I like your personal. Email me." doesn't do anything to encourage a response.

7. Don't discuss sex. Unless you're frequenting adult dating sites, most people are looking for dating first, then sex. Broaching the subject too early can be a huge turn-off.

8. Don't be negative. A positive, healthy outlook on dating and the dating process will encourage others of like mind to respond. See dating as an adventure and not a colonoscopy and you'll have more fun!